"Is it possible to change?"
Welcome! to the home of The Father's Seed.
This is the place where concerns of homosexuality can be given the Answer. Why should anyone have to go
through with it? The question is "Help, I have desires for the same sex...... What should I do?......I don't
want to be gay." Much to my surprise, I've heard the advice of many saying, "Just accept yourself the way
you are; Go with the flow; There is nothing you can do"; and the most stinging advice, "Face it, you were
born that way." You know what? It was well meaning advice, but the majority isn't always right and you still
need the ANSWER. I am here to give you what someone else gave me when I was fixed in to 26 years of a
homosexual lifestyle and didn't have what it took to be free from it. Jesus! Go ahead. Say His name out
loud. Call out to Him. Who is He? He's the One that died for you to have a life worth living overflowing with
love, joy and most needed peace starting now through eternity. Psalm 72:12 tells us that He delivers the
needy who cry out to Him and have no one to help. He's a great and mighty God and He can do more than
any king or prince in the past or in this day and time. His power far exceeds the point of being understood.
But, I am here to tell you by experience that His love for you has all the power to break the bondage of those
sexual desires that you haven't been able to get rid of in your own strength. Are you really ready for a new
life? Sure, we are searching for change. God would like to see a change, but it's going to have to be a
deeper transformation than what we think. Anyone can change from one day to the next. We can change
the color of our hair, or the clothes we wear but to change what we have on the inside of us is going to need
the hand of God. In Ezekial 36:26,27, God states, "I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you; I
will remove from you your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh. And I will put my Spirit in you and
move you to follow my decrees and be careful to keep my laws." True change comes from receiving a new
heart and a new Spirit from God through His Son Jesus Christ. He is the source of your new life. We cannot
change on our own. The only way is through Jesus Christ. We must surrender our selves to Him. To
overcome these desires is only one of the by-products of following Jesus. And the only reason anyone
would follow Jesus is because of their love for Him. Do you love Jesus? Love will keep you following Him and
to follow Him is not to walk in darkness, but to have the light of life.(Jn.8:12) God established His covenant of
salvation with us from love, Jesus being the mediator of that covenant. Our highest calling has been to
"Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is
the first and greatest commandment."(Matt.22:37,38)
In this part of the world there is no secret to being who we want to be. We can go anywhere we want to go.
We can do anything we want to do. And, we are known to have the strength and the courage to be anything
we want to be. But, what if we don't want to be gay? What if we could find the Love that gives, enlightens,
teaches, strengthens and empowers us from the core of our being. What if we could say with all confidence,
"Greater is He that is in me than He that is in the world"(1Jn.4:4) And if we could say, "I can do all things
through Christ who gives me strength!"(Php.4:13) and know that "I am strong in the Lord and in His Mighty
Power!"(Eph.6:10) And live as an "Overcomer by the blood of the Lamb!"(Rev.12:11)
Well Hey! You can! You can say those Words and live in victory. Jesus died to give you the victory that
you need right now. When Jesus died He knew we would all fall short of the glory of God in our own lives
(Rom.3:23) I will admit. It's not always a good outcome when God let's us live any way we feel.
The Love in God's heart for you sent His one and only Son Jesus to the cross. Beaten beyond recognition,
crucified for our sins, His resurrection opened the way for His Spirit to come in power to live with us and in us
as we come to Him in repentance believing in Him, receiving Him in our hearts as our personal Savior. You
know what friend, the bible tells us that in the past God overlooked ignorance(unawareness), "but now He
commands all people everywhere to repent. For He has set a day when He will judge the world with justice
by the Man(Jesus) He has appointed. He has given proof of this to all men by raising Him from the
dead."(Acts17:30,31) And so we ought to rest in knowing God loves us and is well able to take care of us.
We were not left alone and without the strength to overcome. He is alive. He was dead and He lives
forevermore. Death nor Satan could hold Him down. Jesus holds the keys to Death and Hades.(Rev.1:18)
He makes His people into overcomers. The blood that He shed rescues us from the dominion of darkness.
Yes, we are in the darkness when we can't see the chains of desire restraining us from escape. Thank God
for His Son Jesus!! Don't let anyone tell you it's not possible for you to change. Jesus has always
been the Answer. He is here for you. And I know that He is calling you to come out of the darkness and into
His light.
Over and over I think of my old friends who are still living the homosexual life. And, I think of those like you
who are wondering if there is a way of escape. And.......I remember the many times I use to sit in the
darkness without a smile, without a doubt that I did not know what life meant for me. And I will not forget all
the dead end relationships. But now I know and I can say that God is calling every one of us to come
to Him in repentance. All our days on this earth, He has counted. And, this is why He is calling you to
come out and be separate. Calling you because He loves you! Listen to this. God Himself says:
(Matthew 23:37)
".....how often I have longed to gather your children (us) together, as a hen gathers her chicks
under her wings, but you were not willing."
And now that homosexual rights are becoming a reality, God is calling all the more to His creation of men and
women to give them the RIGHT TO BE HIS CHILDREN.
(John 1:11,12)
"He came to that which was His own, but His own did not receive Him. Yet to all who received
Him, to those who believed in His name, He gave the RIGHT to become children of God."
Homosexuality......some say it was a choice. Many say it had nothing to do with choice. One thing I know for
sure and that is .......you can choose to get out of it. And God will help you. He'll help you start new .
He'll help you start over and be there for you all the way. He'll never leave you. Your steps forward will
never be alone. And if you find yourself walking backwards, it's there where you will find Him waiting to get
you through. If you lose sight of His path, The Seed of His Word will show you the way to go. This is what
God is like. He is for you and not against you. Yes, He wants you to leave the gay life and it's desires
behind. But that's because He has a life to give you that's indestructable, incorruptible, and far beyond what
the homosexual life could ever attain.
Jesus said "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through
me."(Jn.14:6) "He who comes to me I will in no way cast out."(Jn.6:37) Call His name. He is your
answer. Open your heart to Him. He says, "Here I am! I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears
my voice and opens the door. I will come in and eat (fellowship) with him, and he with me."
(Rev.3:20) He is knocking at the door of your heart. Let Him in to help you. Let Him in to stay.